The only difference between cheating and doing (while involved) is that one is recorded right?

Is ignorance bliss in this situation? Does it really matter because you can't be with your mate 24hrs, they may be cheating-but if your mate does ,at least you know what they do. People get this misconception that is a breeding ground for std's and aids. Those people get tested every 3 wks just to be able to work-it's what they do off cameras that get them in trouble,so or not,u can get the std from home.